mother and daughter on grass

Mother’s day today is a celebration of all the goddesses in our lives

Today is Mother’s Day in Aotearoa New Zealand a day to celebrate all the mums in our lives. A celebration that has its origins in ancient goddesses. The best gift you can give your mum to show your love and appreciation is to spend time with her. Since becoming a mum I enjoy spending quality time with my daughter. Whether it’s going shopping, nature walks or watching our favourite television show. Although, she lives in another city, and we don’t spend as much time together, we make the most of the times we do have together as I do with my own mum. I’ve often wondered where the celebration of Mother’s Day originated.  

Celebrations of mothers can be traced back to the ancient Greeks and Romans. Festivals honoured the mother goddesses Rhea and Cybete. But the modern precedent for Mother’s Day is the early Christian festival known as “Mothering Sunday.” This was a major tradition in the UK and parts of Europe. It eventually faded in popularity before merging with the American Mother’s Day in the 1930s and 40s, which has become the Mother’s Day in NZ we know today.  

Us kiwis like to honour our mums with gifts of flowers or chocolates. With a night off cooking dinner or breakfast in bed other alternatives. But why not try something different? Take mum out for a walk at a local walkway or reserve followed by lunch at a café? Or perhaps pack a picnic with mum’s favourite food to take with you. She is sure to thank you for it. We are spoilt for choice but the most special gift you can give is your love and spending time together.   

Happy Mother’s Day to all the mums out there who are all goddesses just like the Greeks.

The power of images and sounds in nature

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Whenever I am outdoors, I notice my surroundings and the audio. So I’ve been interested in finding out more about what power, if any, images and sounds in nature have on overall well-being. Studies have found that nature’s playlist has positive benefits for well-being.


The benefit of nature sounds to physical and mental health are well-recorded. Studies have linked experiences in nature to having a positive impact on well-being. A decrease in mental stress, an improvement in cognitive performance, and high levels of creativity, as well as improved sleep. While images of nature also reduce anger, fear, stress, and increase positive feelings.


Visual stimulation
If you want to reignite the feeling of being amongst nature simply surround yourself with photographs and images of outdoor scenes.


The reason images of nature have a more positive effect than abstract imagery or artworks is evolutionary. We have a need to rapidly assess and process what is happening within a unique environment for survival. Images can also relieve mental fatigue as they distract and remove us from the current environment.


Bird and water sounds
Bird sounds help alleviate stress and annoyance. While water sounds enhance positive emotions like tranquillity, awareness, and relaxation. Researchers encourage people to find inspiration in the Japanese practice of “forest bathing” by visiting a national park or participating in sound walks designed to increase our appreciation of natural sounds.
Benefit from natural sounds mixed with manufactured noises


Research also suggests natural sounds mixed with manufactured noises can still benefit people. Natural sounds help camouflage unwanted noise, such as cars, trains, and planes.
Listening to natural sounds along with artificial noise is better for you than listening to only unnatural noises. That ocean sounds playlist you listen to every night to drown out the street noise might be doing wonders for your overall health.

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Go ahead and find out for yourself. Look at some breathtaking nature scenes on your computer screensaver, gaze at the flowers on your table, or display your favourite nature photos in your home or office. Unsplash has some incredible free images that could inspire you. Listen to some nature sounds of water running or birds singing and notice what difference it makes to how you feel!

a book review: nature and well-being in Aotearoa NEW ZEALAND.


Lockdown fatigue is real right now. Many people are struggling to cope with the uncertainty of Covid-19. That’s why Catherine Knight’s book ‘Nature and Wellbeing in Aotearoa New Zealand – Exploring the connection’ published last year is so topical.

Knight grew up with little contact with nature; that’s why she supports the return of places in our neighbourhoods that all kiwis can freely access. She asks us to reconsider the way we live by spending less time commuting to work and instead living and playing nearby. We need to create more natural spaces in cities, towns, and backyards and make it easier for everyone to spend time in nature.

History and scientific thought on nature and well-being

I love that Knight researched the historical and scientific experience of nature and well-being. From the Greek philosophy in the 6th century BC to the European monasteries in the 13th century, where gardens were used not just for food but also for recreation to aid the recovery of the sick. While the Iron Chancellor of the German empire between 1871-1890 was told by his physician to put his arms around a tree for up to half an hour as an antidote to severe fatigue.

While the growth of scientific and popular interest in the relationships between health and nature was also explored, numerous studies have found that contact with nature positively affects mood, cognitive function, and recovery from stress. From forest bathing in Japan, known as ‘forest or nature therapy’, to moving to greener urban areas along with the duration and frequency of exposure to nature are just some of the scientific research covered and more are mentioned in the book.

Studies of behaviours

The book has drawn data from various studies on the latest scientific research on how children’s behaviours have changed over twenty years and the consequences -an increase in obesity, along with illnesses in children and adults. There is strong evidence supporting that getting amongst nature is beneficial to health and well-being, which is also touched on in the studies.

The place of nature in Aotearoa New Zealand cultural history

There is a chapter on our cultural history and how Maori and European settlement affected the natural world, including birdlife, forests, wetlands, and rivers. Knight also compares with other countries like Germany, Norway, and Japan, who associate strongly with the forest as part of their cultural identity.   

Finding a sense of place and connection in nature

Knight also devotes a large part of the book to telling personal stories of people she interviewed seeking better lives. One of those interviews is Rachael Phillips, who grew up in Gisborne on a quarter-acre section in a wilderness of fruit trees. Rachael remembers family bushwalks in the Waioeka Gorge (between Gisborne and Opotiki) and visits to the National Arboretum of NZ Eastwoodhill and Grays Bush Scenic Reserve. Rachael’s story is very personal, and her own experience behind the restoration of a kahikatea block on their farm in Otorohanga. The memories of the kahikatea forest in Grays Bush and her father’s passion led her to find some healing in her own project. 

Grays Bush Scenic Reserve: This reserve is renowned for kahikatea and puriri trees that grow together some are 400-500 years old. I feel small. Kahikatea, named ‘white pine’ by European colonists, are majestic trees and NZ’s tallest native trees at 55 metres. It is estimated that only 2 percent of original kahikatea forest remains nationwide.
Grays Bush Scenic Reserve: This reserve is renowned for kahikatea and puriri trees that grow together some are 400-500 years old. I feel small. Kahikatea, named ‘white pine’ by European colonists, are majestic trees and NZ’s tallest native trees at 55 metres. It is estimated that only 2 percent of original kahikatea forest remains nationwide.

Embracing nature in our everyday lives.

We still have a way to go as a nation, with many kiwis still spending little time in nature due to demographics, time, and even cultural factors. Knight ponders the question, ‘what are some of the ways we can ensure nature is in every kiwi’s life?’ This is already happening with initiatives around the country that are community-led to restore nature along streams, rivers, and in forest and wetland remnants and estuaries. Despite this happening, these are often separated from the places where we live and work.   

Recommendation

I recommend this book as an excellent read and resource suitable for anyone interested in knowing more about nature and well-being from a kiwi perspective. It gives food for thought and moves us to take action to create more natural spaces in the cities and towns in which most of us live.

Images equally support the information throughout, providing a visual record of nature experiences and people enjoying it. Knight is also the author of ‘Environmental History of the Manawatu’, ‘Ravaged Beauty’ and subsequent books ‘New Zealand Rivers’ and “Beyond Manapouri”.

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Hug a tree – it really makes you feel better!

On my wedding day, I remember TOUCHING a tree; it made me happy.

I wondered, why touching or hugging a tree is good for me?  I decided to do some research.

According to Wikipedia: “hugging a tree increases levels of the hormone oxytocin which is responsible for feeling calm and emotional bonding. When hugging a tree, the hormones serotonin and dopamine make you feel happier.”

There is increasing evidence that trees are also good for our mental health according to an article in the “Conversation” in 2012. 

It seems that trees and green spaces offer multiple health benefits from allergy reductions to increases in self-esteem and mental well-being. Trees not only improve our psychological health, but they also contribute to keeping our bodies healthy. Combatting air pollution, trees absorb air-borne pollutants. Not only absorbing harmful chemicals, but trees also release beneficial ones. Chemicals released by trees and plants, called phytoncides, were found to boost the immune system.

When hugging a person is off-limits, what can we do to feel comfort? Why not try hugging a tree?

Overseas some countries have been finding ways to get positive benefits from trees. To beat the Covid-19 blues, the Icelandic Forestry Service encouraged people to hug trees while social distancing measures prevented them from hugging loved ones. Rangers marked out intervals of two metres within the forest so that visitors could enjoy nature without fear of getting too close to each other. While David Knott in the UK was on a mission to hug 350 trees to raise funds to help save trees in Sequoia Avenue at Benmore Botanic Garden.

While in Aotearoa New Zealand, with our clean green image, we are for the most part getting out into nature. During the pandemic, Jennifer Little missed the feeling of touch, so decided to hug a tree and wrote about it in an article in the Spinoff.

So, I’ll take a moment to notice and enjoy trees. They may be impacting my health more than I think. Something for us all to ponder in these challenging times.

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A chocolate hit will lift your mood this Winter

Most people have a special cake or dessert that they enjoy and love making. Right? The “Mississipi mud pie” is mine. A wonderfully rich pie that’s always guaranteed to satisfy my sweet tooth. The key ingredient in the mud pie is ‘dark chocolate.’ According to two studies earlier this year dark chocolate can improve stress, mood, memory and immunity.

Dark chocolate has high concentrations of cacao which can have a positive effect on stress levels, inflammation, mood, memory and immunity. The studies claim that a minimum of 70% cacao can support cognitive, endocrine and cardiovascular health. If you’re a chocoholic like me, then this is good news. Researchers claim you can indulge in up to two squares of dark chocolate daily. Just avoid eating the whole bar to keep calories in check. Choose chocolate that’s at least 70 percent cacao to enjoy the full benefits.

This also raises the question: should I buy organic dark chocolate? Truly healthy dark chocolate will contain only a handful of ingredients. It won’t contain fructose, corn syrup, chemical additives, artificial colour or flavourings, or any other artificial ingredients. Some reputable organic brands include: Green & Black’s, Lindt, Trader Joe’s Fair Trade Organic and Vosges. Fair trade certification on any products ensures that farmers receive a fair price and that no slave or child labour was used.

So, if you’re looking for a mid-winter chocolate treat try making your favourite. I know mud pie is one chocolate treat that’s going to lift my mood and get me out of the doldrums this winter.

“Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first.” Ernestine Ulmer